docs: Update production deployment with actual infrastructure details

- PostgreSQL on dedicated server: 10.0.0.207 (postgres:a3ppq@10.0.0.207:5432/parentflow)
- Application server: 10.0.0.240 with SSH access (root/a3pq5t50yA@#)
- Nginx and SSL already configured on dedicated proxy server
- Updated ecosystem.config.js with production database credentials
- Updated .env.production.example with correct server details
- Redis, MongoDB, MinIO remain as Docker containers on 10.0.0.240

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ecosystem.config.js

@@ -13,20 +13,25 @@ module.exports = {
         NODE_ENV: 'production',
         API_PORT: 3020,
         PORT: 3020,
-        DATABASE_HOST: 'localhost',
-        DATABASE_PORT: 5556,
-        DATABASE_NAME: 'parentflow_production',
-        DATABASE_USER: 'parentflow_user',
-        DATABASE_PASSWORD: 'parentflow_secure_password_2024',
+        // Dedicated PostgreSQL Server
+        DATABASE_HOST: '10.0.0.207',
+        DATABASE_PORT: 5432,
+        DATABASE_NAME: 'parentflow',
+        DATABASE_USER: 'postgres',
+        DATABASE_PASSWORD: 'a3ppq',
         DATABASE_SSL: 'false',
+        // Redis Docker on 10.0.0.240
         REDIS_HOST: 'localhost',
-        REDIS_PORT: 6667,
-        MONGODB_URI: 'mongodb://localhost:27778/parentflow_ai',
+        REDIS_PORT: 6379,
+        REDIS_PASSWORD: 'parentflow_redis_password_2024',
+        // MongoDB Docker on 10.0.0.240
+        MONGODB_URI: 'mongodb://parentflow_admin:parentflow_mongo_password_2024@localhost:27017/parentflow_ai_chat?authSource=admin',
+        // MinIO Docker on 10.0.0.240
         MINIO_ENDPOINT: 'localhost',
-        MINIO_PORT: 9004,
+        MINIO_PORT: 9000,
         MINIO_USE_SSL: false,
-        MINIO_ACCESS_KEY: 'parentflow_minio',
-        MINIO_SECRET_KEY: 'parentflow_minio_secret_2024',
+        MINIO_ACCESS_KEY: 'parentflow_minio_admin',
+        MINIO_SECRET_KEY: 'parentflow_minio_password_2024',
         JWT_SECRET: '0OEe+ml/g8/w1LVUwOuot5EeqADcZXnu9eATnTEU91Ji4KL8A8rhN42e1TT0s4ksir/5OJkk5/mwW4VzMcHpaA==',
         JWT_REFRESH_SECRET: 'txk+0Olbuh0EPJd3Qq+zGfr+2ip6NtEHiq6iUDD/omBjt3ABO4ou7U/m9CgI4A8UlEU6cZmFkicdOB/QU+Og2g==',
         CORS_ORIGIN: 'https://web.parentflowapp.com,https://api.parentflowapp.com,http://localhost:3030,http://localhost:3005',
@@ -37,6 +42,13 @@ module.exports = {
         PORT: 3020,
         API_URL: 'https://api.parentflowapp.com',
         CORS_ORIGIN: 'https://web.parentflowapp.com,https://api.parentflowapp.com,http://localhost:3030,http://localhost:3005',
+        // Dedicated PostgreSQL Server
+        DATABASE_HOST: '10.0.0.207',
+        DATABASE_PORT: 5432,
+        DATABASE_NAME: 'parentflow',
+        DATABASE_USER: 'postgres',
+        DATABASE_PASSWORD: 'a3ppq',
+        DATABASE_SSL: 'false',
       },
       error_file: './logs/backend-error.log',
       out_file: './logs/backend-out.log',